Questions I get asked as a Death Doula

As a death doula, I am here to support my clients through one of life's most personal experiences. You might wonder what to ask or how to start conversations about death, dying, and end-of-life wishes. Remember, there are no silly questions—my role is to listen, offer gentle guidance, and help you find the answers you need. I am not a medical professional, but I can be a compassionate presence, facilitate meaningful conversations, and help you explore your options.

Below are some of the questions I have been asked:

• What can I expect as I approach the end of my life?

• Why do I feel so angry after my moms passing?

• I feel fine but I know I am dying. What do I do with that?

• How do I talk to my loved ones about my wishes?

• How do I navigate home hospice?

• How do I speak to my kids about death and grief?

• Should I create a plan for my funeral or memorial service? How do I do that?

• What is hospice care, and how does it work?

• How can I find meaning or spiritual comfort during this time?

• How do I handle difficult conversations with family members about death?

• What are some ways to make my last days meaningful and comfortable?

• How can I prepare my family emotionally and practically?

• What options do I have for special last wishes or rituals?

• How do I navigate questions around MAID or is it even legal in my area?

• How can I ensure my digital presence is taken care of after I pass?

• I am scared and I do not know how to express this to my family. Can I talk to you about my fears?

• What do I do now?

• I do not know where to start. Where do I start?

Feel free to ask me anything that’s on your mind. Your questions are important, and together we can explore the path that feels right for you. Remember, this is your journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to approach it.